Friday, February 28, 2014

Hawaii

This year Rich and I are celebrating our 25th Wedding Anniversary!  We decided we should go away together to celebrate, so we chose Hawaii!!!  We realized that we shouldn't wait until our actual anniversary to go, because it's not until August.  We need sunshine now, in February! 
So we got everything booked, made the preparations for leaving our kids at home, dug out the summer clothes, packed up and left on February 17, 2014.
 
Our first flight took us to the Vancouver airport (where I got to be one of the lucky random people who got a pat-down search in Security), and then we headed out over the Pacific to O'ahu.  It was getting dark as we left so I really couldn't see all that water below me, which I liked!  They told us we'd have headwinds and it would probably take longer than the six hours they'd planned for.  It took 7 hours of one of the bumpiest rides I'd ever been on.  The turbulence was awful and we had to have our seatbelts on for most of the trip.  We did get to sleep a bit though, since we were arriving at 2:30am our time and we were pretty tired.  We arrived and our shuttle was there to meet us with shell necklaces and take us to our hotel.  It was so nice as we were walking off the plane to feel the warmth and humidity in the air!  The first thing I noticed was that the airport had no doors - it was all open to the outside.  I guess that when you don't need to keep out the cold, you don't need doors!  It was raining in the middle of the night when we arrived, and that was the only rain we saw during our whole trip.
 
This is the balcony view from our first hotel, looking inland over a pretty canal that often had boats going down it, and people strolling beside it.  We were on the 9th floor.
Our first morning we woke up at 8:00am.  Ate at the breakfast buffet in our hotel and then went to explore the famous and very busy Waikiki Beach.

Playing in the ocean for the first time!  It looks like it would be cool out with the sky looking like that, but it was so nice out - perfect temperatures.  And no hot sun to burn our poor white skin on that first day!
 
There were lots of people (but it wasn't overly crowded) on the beach and in the water.  Surfers and wanna be surfers, swimmers and boats all sharing the water together.  Rich said the water was warm but it felt pretty cold to me when the first wave washed over my foot.  That's the famous Diamond Head crater on the right.
 
This picture is to show how the humidity made my hair curl up and feel so nice!!!
 
We walked along the beach for a long way and then explored the beach front stores.  We realized we were getting tired of walking, and actually just plain getting tired.  So we went back to the hotel and both napped for over 4 hours.  Guess we were a little jet-lagged.  Evening hit and we went out exploring again to find a place to have super, eventually deciding on Chilis.  It was fun to walk around at night - the city really comes to life and they have lit flame torches everywhere, especially along the beach.  There were people performing on the streets, and people living on the streets and sleeping right there on the sidewalks.  This is such a fun place to be because everyone is happy!  Most people are there on vacation, and the regulars are all there to serve the tourists.  And I was impressed with the modesty - we really only saw bathing suits on the beach and not walking around on the streets, even though they're right beside the beach.  Mahala O'ahu!  Oh, and we noticed right away that that say aloha and mahala a lot!!!
 
Our second day we booked a Circle Island Tour through the Polynesian Cultural Center.  We thought this would be a great way to see lots of sights and then we could go back later to the things that interested us the most.  The bus picked us up at our hotel at 8:00am and off we went with a bunch of other tourists.

The bus stopped at various places where we could explore and take pictures.  This picture is the ocean just below Diamond Head.

That's Hanauma Bay - a favourite place for snorkelers and scuba divers because it's an underwater ancient volcanic crater.  Our tour guide pointed out the brush covered landscape there behind Rich that looks like a sleeping dragon.

Hanauma Bay was the first time we saw chickens!!!  Our guide said that a long time ago there was chicken farm on the north shore.  A cyclone came and blew all those chickens up into the stratesphere.  A week later they all started coming back down and landed all over the island - and to this day there are still chickens all over O'ahu.

The Halona Blowhole - it wasn't blowing very much because the waves weren't very big, but we still got the idea.  The hole is to the right of that stick thing - it looks like steam coming out a a hole in the ground when big waves hit.

The colour of the water was so beautiful!  That's Manana (Rabbit) Island out there - I believe our guide said it's a bird sanctuary now and you're not allowed to go out there.  Magnum PI lives just up the road from here.  The road is called the Kalanianaole Hwy.  Interesting fact:  the Hawaiin alphabet only has about 12 letters in it - A E H I K L M N O P U W - which is why there are so many street names that start with K and why it was so confusing to me because they all look and sound the same!

Amazing view of the island and ocean from the Pali Lookout.  This is the site of a gruesome battle where thousands of warriors were pushed off the cliff, the battle which determined the fate of Hawaii. 
 
Pali lookout - this tree's roots looked like strips of bacon all curled up together.  A bunch of tourists were looking at this animal, wondering what exotic Hawaiin species it was.  Then it turned around and it was just a regular cat!  So we called it a Hawaiin Mountain Cat.

And there were chickens at the Pali Lookout too!


It's the Dole Pineapple Plantation!  We only got a few minutes here as our tour bus was running behind schedule.  Just enough time for Rich to get some pineapple ice-cream . . .

. . . and for me to climb inside a pineapple!
 
Here's how a pineapple grows - not the way I would have imagined it!  Notice the baby pineapple in the top left.
 
Sunset Beach on the North Shore - our first glimpse of the world famous waves!  So impressive!!!

We were driving along and saw windmills and it felt like home - except it was warm!!!

We got to the Polynesian Cultural Center and they gave us these nut leis and we had our lunch luau at the Island Buffet.  Our tour guides name was Leon and he was a Moari from NZ attending BYU-H.  He was great and lived an hour from my hometown in NZ.   
Rich and I sitting beside the water, waiting for the Rainbows of Paradise canoe pageant.  Each of the six settlements of Polynesia perform on canoes.
 
Aotearoa (Land of the Long White Cloud aka New Zealand).  Traditional costumes in non-traditional colours - it was a rainbow parade.

Coconut tree!  I have always loved coconut, and after seeing the Samoan show and how coconuts really were the staff of life for them, I love them even more!  They even used them to start fire!  And it was amazing to see how quickly this Samoan guy could climb the tree.  If conditions are right, he'll jump from tree to tree, but he didn't for us.

This is Tongan spear throwing - they're just sticks with wittled ends.  They use these to settle arguments.  Whoever throws their spear closest to the hoop on the ground with the end sticking in the ground, wins the argument.

Look at all their expressions as they stare at my throw with wonder and awe!  It was the best throw of all the ladies - didn't land in the hoop but was very close.

And now they're watching Rich's spear.  By the way, I won!!!
 
We didn't have time to visit all the villages - could easily have spent another day there.  The last one we visited was Aotearoa - shocker, I know!

They had performances in their long house - singing, twirling the poi balls, and of course, the Haka.  I grabbed this Maori for a picture while the chief looks on in the background.

The New Zealand picture booth.
 
Then it was time for the Ali'i Luau.  We all got a fresh flower leis and sat at our table just in time to watch them pull the pig out of the pit. 
 
We had beautiful Polynesian entertainment all through dinner and we were sitting pretty close to the stage.  Actually, later on in the show, they asked for all couples who were there celebrating anniversaries to come to the stage.  There were alot (about 20 couples) and we all got to dance on stage to a nice slow Hawaiin song.
 
We tried all the food - like ono ahi poke and freshly pounded poi.  Some was great and some was, shall we say, more of an aquired taste.  But the buns were fun!  We took the cloth off the bun basket and . . .

. . . purple buns!  They were made with poi too but tasted just like normal bread.
 
Our evening ended with the show HA: Breath of Life.  It was an amazing show, about the life of Mana, and featuring all the different cultures.  They sure did some amazing things with fire!!!  It really was an incredible show, with another amazing Haka.  And that was the end of a fabulous day!  The bus took all us weary tourists back to our hotels.
We loved the PCC!!!
 
  The next day we got to be lazy!  Channel surfing (the only surfing we did in Hawaii!) found us the Olympic women's hockey final.  So we got to watch Canada win the gold in overtime on USA TV.

This was the day we got the most sun.  This pool in our first hotel was my favourite.  I even found some little lizards in that island garden.  And in Hawaii, I didn't need to go in the hot tub to warm up!  I loved feeling warm.  Everytime I'd go to open our balcony door, I'd brace myself for a blast of cold air.  But the blast was always warm air.  I got used to it by the end but it was so nice.  I found it ironic that our first hotel actually had heated toilet seats.  That's not something you really need in Hawaii!
 
After swimming we wandered around again in the evening and found the Cheesecake Factory for supper.  The food here was so good - no wonder there were always huge line-ups!
 
Feb 22 was the day to switch hotels.  We dropped our luggage off at the new place and took a city bus to Pearl Harbour.  That was a long ride on a bus with all the stops and starts.  But we were in no rush and it was fun to watch the people and see all the sights of downtown Honolulu.

The white building in the water on the right is the Arizona Memorial, with the Battleship USS Missouri behind it. 

We arrived at Pearl Harbour too late in the day to get the tickets for the Arizona Memorial, so we took our chances and waited in the Stand-by lineup.  Got in first time - yay!  First we watched about a 20 minute movie about Pearl Harbour.  Then we went to the dock and climbed into this boat that took us out to the memorial.

The memorial was beautiful and a very reverent place.  Everyone was most respectful.  The memorial spans across the sunken battleship so you're looking down on the ship.  The white buoy out in the water shows where the end of the ship is.  Those two things showing above water were something to do with guns. 
 
The other side - again, the buoy in the water shows where the front of the ship is.  This is the smoke stack.  It stuck out higher than this in the water, but they cut the top part off.

The wall of names of all those who died.
 
I zoomed in to show more detail.


That's the submarine USS Bowfin SS-287 behind me.  It "served with great distinction" and is now a museum.
We toured the other museums there at Pearl Harbour.  Pearl Harbour was a solemn yet fascinating place - I'm glad we took the time to go there.
 
Then we checked into our next hotel room.  This one had my favourite room of the three hotels we stayed in.  The balcony is behind those shutters and this was our view . . .
 
23rd Floor
 
And a sunset view!!!
 
Saturday was the day we rented a car.  On our journey to Laie, we drove through the Valley of Temples Memorial Park.

This is the Byodo-In Temple - a non-practicing Buddhist Temple.  It was built in 1968 to commemorate the 100 year anniversary of the first Japanese immigrating to Hawaii.

The hillside was covered in these memorials.  Apparently there are peacocks roaming through here too, but we didn't see any.  It was a beautiful place.

Me, our little rental car and Chinaman's Hat.  Apparently you can walk out to the island, but we were dressed to attend the temple so chose not to.  It's also shark breeding ground at certain times of the year.

We were able to attend a session in the beautiful Laie Hawaii Temple.

Now the temple is in front of us and you can see the road, heading straight to the ocean.
 
We left Laie and headed to the North Shore.  We drove slowly through all the beach area - there are cars every where, and the ocean waves are so captivating that you just want to stare at them.  We found Ted's Bakery and had a delicious lunch there, including the chocolate coconut pie. 
 
I wanted to see the botanical gardens in Waimea Valley, so we headed there.

And we found a chicken!  As we were driving, we actually saw a chicken crossing the road.  I rolled down my window and asked her why she was crossing the road - but now I can't remember what she said!

I found this cute little lizard too!

We followed a road to the Waimea Falls - but there were little pathways off it so you could explore the vegetation.  There were some pretty amazing plants.  And it was winter in Hawaii so they weren't even at their best.  My favourite was a vine that went straight up a tree - but all the leaves of this vine were completely flat against the tree trunk, protecting the stem.  It looked like someone had glued leaves to a tree trunk, one on top of the other, all the way up the tree.

And we made it to the Falls!  Notice the little bodies swimming in the water at the base of the falls.  We were planning to go wading at least, but there were warnings about stuff in the water so we just decided to stay out.  It was pretty brown too.
 
Rich was fascinated with the hibiscus labels and was saying "hibiscus" for half the hike.  Guess it's a Studio C thing or something . . .

This tree has pretty unique roots.  And that hut - see the rock foundation?  Well it was like that inside the hut too and was very hard to walk on and would have been impossible to sweep!

This little shelter was used for smoking fish.
Notice my lovely footwear.  These are the swim shoes I searched forever for before we left and finally found them under the bathroom sink in the camper.  They are the most comfy shoes and were perfect for the hike and possible wading at the Falls, that didn't happen.
 
We left the Waimea Valley and picked a spot on a North Shore beach.  I think our location was determined by the first place we could find a parking spot.
 
These waves were just fantastic - so fascinating to watch.  We both waded here where Richie is (got it on video) and we both got wet by waves that took us by surprise.  The water is so strong.  There was one lone surfer out there.  The sand on this beach was really coarse.  It actually was little stones - so it was really easy to brush off because it was so big.  Didn't feel very good inside the swim shoes though!
 
Rich went swimming on the other side of this little inlet because that's where the other swimmers were.  It was pretty  much exactly like a wave pool!  He sure enjoyed the waves, and I enjoyed watching him.  Now we all know that sea water is salty, but Rich was really unprepared for just how salty it was.  He came rushing in saying "I need a drink of water!" and was drinking lots of water all night to get rid of that salty taste.

After playing around in the water, and leaving without having our car broken into (apparently that's common on the North Shore), we travelled back to Laie to watch the BYU-Hawaii Seasiders play basketball against Fresno Pacific.  BYU girls lost in double overtime - great game!  Boys won - skunked them actually so it wasn't an exciting game.  But apparently when BYU gets to 100 points, they serve ice-cream after the game.  So they got to 100 and the fans went crazy and all lined up outside after the game to get their cones.  Fun times!
 
The next day was Sunday and we were planning on church - even figured out where it was and how to get there.  But then I wasn't feeling well so we literally had a day of rest.  And how nice for us that the only pharmacy in Waikiki was right behind our hotel.  We did enjoy watching the final day of Olympics and the Closing Ceremonies - don't get to do that at home since we don't have TV.
 
On Monday we moved to our third and final hotel.  Before going though, we perused the flea market thing that was beside our hotel and found souveniers for our little people back home.  Rich is quite the barterer, especially since many of the vendors were Korean and he loved being able to speak to them in their language.  They loved it too and gave him some deals!  I, however, do not like to barter.
 
We were on the 21st floor of our last hotel.  The thing I liked best about this one was the location - right across the street from the beach!
View from our balcony looking down.  By the pool is where we all gather for breakfast.

From our balcony looking out over the Pacific Ocean and Waikiki Beach.

Our room.
 
So . . . apparently nine days after the full moon, the sting-rays come to Waikiki beach and hang around for three days.  These pictures are taken during those three days, so the beach was really quite empty.
Rich out walking along the sea wall.

And it's me in the ocean!  We were safe from sting-rays inside the sea wall.
 
Below our hotel, across from the beach was an ice-cream place.  I was able to get coconut ice-cream, and then they hand mixed pineapple into it.  It was one of the most delicious things you could eat after sitting on the hot beach!  Mmmm!

Rich in the hotel pool. 

Enjoying the warmth and the view.
 
On Tuesday we rented a BMW motorbike to cruise around the island in.
There are no helmet laws in Hawaii, but we were smart and wore them, even though they were these skull cap kinds.  I prefer having my face covered.  Rich was protected from the wind by the bike windshield, but I wasn't.  I tried to duck down behind him in the windy times.  And sometimes we'd turn a corner and it would be so windy I thought I was going to lose my glasses!  This was our coolest day in Hawaii so we wore jeans and coats.  It tried to rain for about 30 seconds.  One thing I liked about our bike was that it had heated seats!  I guess that's how you stay warm on a motorbike in the winter.  I had mine turned up all the way!
 
It sure was pretty to cruise along the roads beside the beaches and ocean. 
We rode around Diamond Head and up the east side of O'ahu to a town that started with a K - big surprise!  I believe it was Kaneohe.  Lovely place, beautiful homes and beaches and we found a delightful little restaurant for lunch.

We stopped at a banyan tree.  These were fascinating!  There was the main tree and then it would send down these roots from it's branches and when they reached the ground, they would grow in just like roots.  They're actually called prop roots and help support the huge spreading branches.
 
We enjoyed learning about some of the amazing local sea life at the Waikiki Aquarium.  So many unique and gorgeous fish - well, gorgeous for fish!  My favourite was a bright orange fish with a perfect magenta square on each side of it.  So simple yet eye catching!
 
When we left the aquarium, we couldn't undo the bike lock that locked the tire and prevented theft of the bike.  Rich tried and tried and finally had to call the bike rental guy to come rescue us.  But then, all of a sudden, it worked and we were able to leave!  It was warm by now and was fun to cruise the streets of Waikiki on the bike.
 
Our adventure at this point in time was financial.  My credit card hadn't been working for a few days and now Rich's wasn't working because the motorbike rental place took a deposit that they wouldn't refund for a few days, which put his card over its limit.  Our debit cards just didn't work in Hawaii in retail outlets - all we could do with them was withdraw cash so that's what we had to do.  (When we got home we found out that my card had been compromised and was cancelled because it was being used in a Walmart Pharmacy in New Jersey - good thing I had called and told them I'd be in Hawaii before we left, so these false charges alerted them and they shut down my card.)   
 
For our last dinner in Hawaii, we decided to go back to our favourite place for the third time - The Cheesecake Factory.  So we walked along the beach at sunset - and yeah, it was just as nice as it sounds!
A nice man was just standing there so we got him to take our picture.  He told us he'd just lost his wife and I thought he meant that she'd died.  But no - she was just missing, which is why he was hanging out in plain site on the street, willing to take pictures for needy tourists.

The Cheesecake Factory had this garden on the street in front of it where we all sat while waiting our turn.  Usually it was over an hour wait, but it was so fun to sit and talk and visit with tourists from all over the world, and to watch the people walk past.  When the couple to our left went in, a group of young men sat down.  Next thing we know, young girls from all over were coming and asking for autographs and getting their pictures taken with them.  So I asked the one beside me if they were famous people.  He said they were - internet personalities actually, they do videos on YouTube.  He was the nicest, friendliest young man, so we took a picture of them!  They are Our Second Life or O2L.  One of our daughters was impressed when we showed her the picture!!! 
 
I must add here that once we got into the restaurant, I had the most beautiful (fruit and flower garnishes) and delicious virgin pina colada that I've ever had the pleasure of devouring.  So good, so so good!!!
 
Our hotel at night looked like a Volcano!  There was a mountain and big red light up the side, and the torches burning around the Tiki Restaurant there on the second level.  Fun place!
 
For our last morning in Hawaii, Rich had a para-sailing trip at 8:00am.
We went out on that little boat behind us.  Captain Kevin was our skipper and there were eight young Japanese girls with us too.

Rich was first to get harnessed and go up.  He was on the longest possible rope length - 1200 feet.

When he started going out, all the Japanese girls screamed and giggled.

The boat started going faster at this point and I was trying to take pictures and not loose my balance in the "good" spot they put me in to take pictures!

Diamond Head, the Waikiki shoreline and a ship.

1200 feet of rope with Rich at the end.

As Rich was being pulled back in, Captain Kevin posed for a photo while pretending to sever the rope.

Our Japanese shipmates as we were heading back to shore.  Boat rides sometimes make me queasy, but I did okay this time.  However I didn't like the fast sharp corners when the boat felt like it was tipping over.
 
After this last adventure, we went back to our hotel and started to pack up.  Our time in paradise was coming to an end, but I was very excited to see my chickadee's again!  Our shuttle picked us up and took us to the airport.

Rich had a final meal in the airport but I had mine packed up to consume later on the plane.  You can buy food on the plane, but only with a credit card - which we couldn't use any more . . . so yeah, planning ahead.  The airport has lovely gardens in the center of it, and this restaurant actually had glass in their window.
 
Our flight left Honolulu at 3:35pm and there was no turbulence this time.  Only took 5 hours heading back, and we had movies to watch this time.  By the time we arrived in Vancouver and went through Customs and collected our baggage, it was about 1:30am.  We wandered through the airport looking for the best location to be our bedroom for that night.
This bench was it!  I was curled up on the two seats on the other side of Rich and we used the same bag covered in a beach towel for our pillow.  I had my arms through my backpack and the red blanket kept me warm.  It was about 2:30am before we got settled and our flight left at 6:00am, so we only got a couple hours of unrestful sleep.  Did you know they clean the airport at night?

Here we are back in our closest airport and so tired!  We waited for a shuttle to take us to our car, which was freezing cold.  We didn't take our winter coats to Hawaii - they were in the trunk of the car.  All I had to wear was a hoodie, my raincoat and mittens until we got to the car.  Oh how I missed the warmth of O'ahu!  We went out for breakfast and the first thing I ordered was hot chocolate!  Then we drove home, collected Mackie from her big sister's house, bought groceries, and went home to see everyone else.  I missed them!!!  But it was wonderful to get away.  The next morning after the kids left for school, Mackie climbed back into bed with me and we both slept for half the day.  It takes awhile to recouperate from travelling, especially when you had such a comfy bed the night before!
 
Rich and I had a simply delightful time together.  Loved Hawaii but love him more!!!

Wednesday, December 18, 2013

Taking Our Missionary to the MTC

Jasmine was to report to the Missionary Training Center in Provo Utah on December 11, 2013.  We had the option of having her fly down, or driving her down.  Now, I have always wanted to see Temple Square at Christmas Time, so I was hoping it would work out that we could drive her down.  But it was her mission so we let her decide what she wanted to do.  When she learned that the Sunday evening before she was to report to the MTC was the Christmas Devotional, she said "I would love to see that!"  So we started making plans for Rich and I to drive her down.
 
We left Friday morning, Dec. 6 to begin our journey to the Missionary Training Center and got as far as Idaho Falls.  We were driving the big red diesel truck with it's good winter tires and four wheel drive.  We figured it would be able to handle any bad weather that came our way, and we did indeed have some bad winter driving, but only on the trip down.
 
The beautiful Idaho Falls Temple.
Jas requested that we have dinner at Jakers here in IFs.
 
We continued into Salt Lake City the next day and this was our worst stretch of weather - very snowy and slushy on the freeway with lots of accidents.  But Richie and the big red truck got us safely there.  We stayed in a downtown hotel that was walking distance to Temple Square.  The first thing we did was walk to the temple and do a session there. We really enjoyed the live session and it was a special session - they said it was the first one with all actors under age 40.  It was amazing!  We got a little bonus as one of the temple workers was able to show us the sealing rooms and we could see where we got married.  And then he took us down another hallway and we got to see some other special things - like the rooms on the back side of the stained glass window.  After this marvellous session, we enjoyed dinner in the temple cafeteria.
 
That evening we attended the musical play "Savior of the World" in the Conference Center Theatre.  It was amazing!!!  We highly recommend it.  When we came out of the theatre, it was snowing heavily.
But it sure made the temple and the lights look lovely.
 
On Sunday morning we attended Music and the Spoken Word with the Mormon Tabernacle Choir in the Conference Center.  It was spectacular and featured the King Singers and the incredible organist too - he played that piece we love that uses his feet so much. 
It was fun to be there for a live broadcast and watch them powder up the guy who does the "spoken word" part and watch the cameras and the cues.  After this we attended church in the Joseph Smith Memorial Building. 
 
This picture is beside the Tabernacle, where they have the life sized Nativity set up.  It was hard to see it very well because it was all covered with snow.  We spent the afternoon exploring Temple Square and the Church Museum.
 
I had to include this picture because it has Flat Stanley.  Katia was learning about this character in school and they asked families to take pictures of Flat Stanley in interesting places.  So he came on our trip with us and was featured in many photos!  Flat Stanley at Temple Square!
 
Inside the Tabernacle.
 
The Church Museum had lots of really interesting displays.  Jas enjoyed the section on Mexico and even danced around in this skirt, with those dancing Mexicans on the screen to the right.
 
In the evening we were able to attend the Christmas Devotional in the Conference Center.  This was the year they changed the name from First Presidency Christmas Devotional to simply Christmas Devotional, so anyone is able to speak at it.
Jas was trying to finish The Book of Mormon one last time before entering the MTC, so any spare moment she had, she was reading it. 
 
Our seats were in the first row of the section we were in, directly in front of  the pulpit, with one section in front of us. 
 There were wonderful speakers and the choir was beautiful as always. We loved singing "Silent Night" with them. And it's always such a special moment when the Prophet, President Monson, walks in. The crowd hushes and rises to their feet, and you can just feel that he is the prophet! So awesome!

After the Devotional we walked around Temple Square - with the thousands of others who had attended.  With the fresh snow everywhere, it was truly beautiful - just the way I'd always imagined it would look!
 
On Monday morning, Jas and I did some shopping at Deseret Books.  We got there an hour before it opened so explored City Creek Mall in its Christmas finery for awhile.  Later we met Rich and had lunch in one of the restaurants on the top floor of the Joseph Smith Memorial Building - that was one of Jasmine's wishes!

Our final stop in Salt Lake City was the McCune Center - this is where we had our first wedding reception almost 25 years ago.  Our horse drawn carriage circled Temple Square and brought us up to this mansion on the hill where our guests were waiting to greet us.  Fun to see it again!
 
We had a few hours of time to kill so what better thing to do than to go Christmas shopping!  We'd spent so much time focused on Jas and getting her ready, that I hadn't done any shopping yet for Christmas.  So it was nice to have her help in picking out gifts and stocking stuffers for the rest of the family.
 
Our next stop we were kind of excited about, but didn't know what to expect.  Through an email group for families with missionaries serving in Mexico City, I met Lisa.  When she heard we were going to be bringing Jasmine to Provo, she graciously invited us to stay with them at their home in Highland.  We decided that it would be nice to do that for one night, or to at least visit with them for awhile before we committed to bringing our luggage in and spending the night.  I mean, who knows what they may have been like!!!  But Lisa was the most wonderful person ever and quickly  made us feel right at home.  The whole family was great and fed us dinner and took us to their FHE group.  We had breakfast the next morning and talked for hours.  Jas was able to learn of lot about what to expect in her mission from their son who is already there.  We're so glad we stayed with them - marvellous family!!!
 
After we left them on Tuesday morning, we headed to the Jordan River Temple to do a session.  I wanted to go here because it's the first temple I went through and I wanted to see it again.  We got up to the front doors but couldn't get in.  I peered through the doors and could see a vacuum sitting there in the foyer.  It was closed for two weeks for cleaning - but I hadn't noticed that when I looked online to see the hours.  We weren't the only ones there though - quite a few cars were coming and going after they couldn't get in. 
 
So we went a few miles to the next temple - the Oquirrh Mountain Temple.  All temples are beautiful and often have a reoccurring motif.  I noticed lots of polka dots in this temple (although maybe they were O's for Oquirrh).  I liked the DOTS though because that stands for Depend on the Savior and that was totally what I needed to do as I prepared to say goodbye to my little girl for eighteen months. 
 
Then we made our way to Provo and got ourselves a hotel room.  We did a practice run and found our way to the entrance of the MTC.  They wouldn't let us in and told us to come back tomorrow. lol  We found the BYU Bookstore and had fun doing some more Christmas shopping.  Jas picked a restaurant for our last dinner together - can't remember what it was but it was very tasty, with a French theme.
 
Finally Wednesday, December 11th arrived. We were scheduled to drop her off at 1:00pm. We had some special time that morning in our hotel room. Jas received a Father's Blessing and we talked for a long time.

 
 
 
 

Finally it was time to go so we loaded up the truck.

 
We had a little lunch at the Olive Garden - Jas and I weren't very hungry!  There was an Elder in the booth beside us, waiting for his 12:45 drop off time.  His family said to us, "Don't be alarmed when he hugs the waitress - it's his sister!"  We watched him leave, and soon it was our turn.  When we went to pay the bill, none of our Canadian debit cards were working - a common occurrence for us on USA machines.  So the manager came to our table and said that the meal was on the house since we were taking our missionary in that day.  He wished her good luck and thanked us for chosing the Olive Garden for our last meal.  We thought that was awfully nice of them, but we still payed for our meal, just needed to use the credit card.

Then we headed to the Missionary Training Center.  We had a few minutes before 1:00pm so we parked at the Provo Temple.  Jasmine was watching the clock and when she said "Go now!" we drove down the hill to the MTC.  Now this was the part that I was dreading, but I was trying to be brave.  As we drove in at the gate, they asked us if we had an Elder or a Sister.  We replied "Sister" so they put a pink sticker on our vehicle.  Then they told us we had 2 1/2 minutes to get her unloaded and sent off.  I could feel the tears coming, but it was amazing as we drove in.  There were Elders and Sisters all over the curb, and they were smiling and waving to us as we drove in.  It was impossible to feel sad being surrounded by all that happiness.  We pulled in to the spot they waved us to.  Elders came up and opened our doors - I almost fell out because I was bending down to get the camera and didn't know that my door was being opened!  Rich and some Elders had her luggage out in about 30 seconds.  A sweet Host Sister came up to us and said she would be taking care of Jasmine.

All that was left to do were our final hugs and loves!
I really didn't want to let go.  And of course I was crying . . . that's why I'm facing away from the camera!

Love this one!


I snapped this picture and Rich was filming it.

They turned and walked up the sidewalk.

They stopped and turned for a picture (it's better in the video!) and the Sister Host called out, "'Don't worry, I'll take good care of her."

The orange suitcases really stood out!
Our two-and-a-half minutes were almost up and they needed our spot.  A gentleman in charge politely motioned for us to leave.

As we were driving out, I could see the orange luggage and zoomed in for a final picture.  A car drove by right when I took it (see the pink sticker - they have a Sister!), but you can see her head.  And that was our final live glimpse of Jasmine for 18 months.  She was so happy and excited to leave.  Although we'll miss her, we are so proud of her for having the desire to serve the Lord.  She had worked as a house cleaner since April and was so tired of cleaning other people's homes.  But she was able to save up enough to pay for her mission and was so eager to get on her way.
 
As we drove away from the MTC, we were sniffling a bit and were a little emotional, but not too bad.  It was the good-bye's that I knew would be the hardest part for me, so I was rather relieved that that part was over.  But now, we needed a distraction to keep our mind off her.  Rich dropped me off at a Hobby Lobby (never been to one of those before!) and he went to wash his truck (you'll notice how clean it wasn't in the MTC curb photos!).
 
While we were planning this trip and getting tickets to various events, we were very excited to notice that Brigham Young University had a home basketball game on Dec. 11.  We love basketball and had never seen a BYU game, so we got tickets.  We were really glad to have something planned for that evening that we could look forward to.  We went early since we had nothing better to do, and watched the whole pre-game warm-ups and stretches, and watched the stands fill up with people.  Our seats were 30 rows back to start with.
 
I had met Amie, another missionary mom online, who's daughter was also serving in the same mission as Jasmine and went into the MTC that day too.  We learned that we were both going to be at the same game so they found us at our seats, and offered us much better seats on Row 5, which we gladly accepted.  It was so nice to sit and chat with her during the game.  We discovered that our blond missionary daughters have a lot in common - and we were glad they're both athletes who know how to run!  BYU was playing Prairie View or something like that, from Texas, and doubled their score, so it wasn't an exciting game to watch, but it was still fun to be there.  So glad I got to meet Amie too, another awesome missionary mom!
 
The next day we started our trip home.  We did drive past the MTC one last time to wave at Jasmine (but we later learned that she wasn't even there - she was on the temporary West Campus with all the Spanish speaking missionaries!).  We got home on Friday and were happy to see our other girls and tell them all about the trip and show them the pictures and videos.  After unloading, I checked my emails and wow - big surprise!!!  There was our first email from our Hermana.  Friday was her P-Day and she was sending us a letter before we'd even had a chance to wait for one.  Pretty sweet! 
 
I'm so glad Jas wanted us to drive her down - it was a wonderful spiritual feast of treasured memories we won't forget!

Friday, December 6, 2013

Jasmine Prepares for her Mission

Preparing for a mission is actually a lot of work!  
During the last few months before she left, these are some things she did.

The first step Jasmine had to complete before going on her mission was turning 19 - she accomplished that feat very nicely!


Finding an appropriate missionary wardrobe - skirts had to be long enough to easily cover her knees when standing and sitting, and not so long that she would be tripping on the uneven sidewalks and stairs of Mexico City. 
Thrift stores were actually some of the best places to find the skirts.  Dresses on the left, skirts on the bottom and tops/cardigans at the top.  You want to be able to mix and match as much as possible, and change the look of the outfit with a different belt or scarf.
Taking a picture was a good plan - helped me remember what she had and what I could send to her that would work with what she already had, without sending duplicates.  Most of these clothes didn't come home with her - she left them in Mexico City for others.  She did bring home some things from other sisters though.


In November Jaime left on her mission.  This is a suitcase packing party at Jaime's house with friends Brooklyn (who was also leaving to serve the week after Jaime) and Kennidy.


The day before Jasmine's farewell at church, Dad decided to finish the rock on the fireplace while he could still have help from Jas.  We also had help from Logan, Kevin and Greg.  Mackenzie is the supervisor.


Got it finished and it looks beautiful!  It was my job to get the decorations back in place before the dinner after church the next day.

The Gates Family (decorating got finished!)
Jas's farewell was a few weeks before she left - November 24th.  It was nice to have it a few weeks early so we didn't need to think about it anymore during the final weeks of preparation.
Sisters are gonna miss their Jazzy!
We had a family dinner of Taco-in-a-Bag - seemed appropriate for someone heading to Mexico!  Why do the men folk always fall asleep after eating?

We had a huge dump of snow just before leaving for the MTC.  Bug is jumping off the deck into a snowbank with Jasmine.  I suggested to Rich and Jas that they should shovel the sidewalks and they agreed and went out to tackle it.  They were almost finished when I frantically called them back in.  Jordyn had just gotten out of the shower and in the process of flipping her hair back to wrap it in a towel, she hit her head on the medicine cabinet and was bleeding profusely.  She yelled for me and I took one look at all the blood and said "Apply pressure to it with your towel." I don't do well with blood which is why I called in Rich and Jas.  They were taking care of things, but the bleeding just wasn't slowing down after quite a long time.  With her diabetes we didn't want to take any chances so called the ambulance.  Not one but two arrived - good thing the sidewalks had just been shoveled!

The ambulance dropped her at the Dahl Clinic and she got a few stitches.  Apparently the rumor going on around town was that Richard had had a heart attack.
So Jordyn was a bit of a mess with wet tangled hair caked with blood.  So while they watched a movie, Jas lovingly brushed out her hair and sponge washed all the blood out of it.  Last service for Jordyn before leaving for 18 months!

Jas was very organized, as usual - took care of all her packing of suitcases and packing up her room.  Dad's giving her a massage break from her work.  We had to provide her with enough toiletries for 18 months - that took a lot of space, and weight, but at least she didn't have to worry about searching for anything in Mexico City and had her favourite brands from home that she was comfortable with.

All packed - everything fits and came in under the allotted weight!  Big sigh of relief!!!

A few days before she left we all went out to a Mexican Restaurant to see what kind of food Jas would be eating for the next year and a half.  Good stuff!

Jas was set apart as a missionary on Thursday, December 5th by President Dudley.  From then on she had to have a companion with her, so a sister sleepover on her last night at home seemed like a great plan.

The next morning she said her good-byes to her beloved sisters and Richard and I started our trip to the Provo MTC with our Sister Jasmine Taylor.



This calendar posted on the mud room door shows some of the major events of the fall of 2013, before Jasmine left for the Mexico City Southeast Mission.

Sunday, October 20, 2013

Jasmine Goes to the Temple

Friday, October 4, 2013 was the day Jasmine attended the temple.  She was so excited on the car ride - just had this huge smile on her face, and little giggles would spontaneously erupt from her!
 
It was a wonderful experience to attend the temple with Jasmine. 
 
 Jas had both sets of her grandparents there and sister Richelle and her husband Logan.
 
It was extra special because Jasmine's cousin, Jaime, who got her mission call on the same day as Jasmine, also attended the temple for the first time that day. And it was the day after cousin Grady returned from his mission to Independence Missouri and then Wichita Kansas when the mission was split, so he was there too.  
 
Jas and Jaime - future Sister Missionaries!!!

Being with family in the temple - it just doesn't get much better than this! 


Sisters!
 
After the temple we all went for treats at Dairy Queen - it's tradition!!!
 
Jasmine had lots of opportunities to go to the temple during the next two months before leaving on her mission.  The youth in our stake had been challenged to find three names of ancestors to take to the temple and do baptisms for during a youth conference.  Jordyn, Carlee and Jenna were able to find names and do the baptisms and confirmations for them.  Jasmine was able to do many of the endowments for her ancestors before leaving on her mission.